Good relations with your colleagues and superiors will not only help you, but will make work more enjoyable. Each employee want to be liked other staff. If you treat people as they want to be treated, they will like you. Some of us if you know what we are doing is undesirable for others. I'm going to give you a list of things that attract others to you and things they consider undesirable. When you move to the company, you need all the support you can get.
Praise people
All love, when praised. People are waiting for approval themselves in others. But you have to praise the people only when they deserve. If you praise people when they do not deserve it, or If you praise too much, you lose credibility. Not exaggerate your praise. Make the praise as warm and sincere as Can.
Do not put people down
Putting people can be very damaging to you and others man's relationship with the home you. People do not want to feel degraded According called stupid, crazy, weird, etc. Do not suppress any even if they were not present. If you do, the word will get back to them and you'll look bad. Always speak positively about people. Even if you do not like them, continue to appreciate them - you'll be amazed at what she does. If you must speak something bad, do not say anything.
Do not worry, with your interests only
There is nothing wrong in caring and looking for yourself. Just do not make it noticeable to other people. You will resentment from other people, if you seem selfish. Make sure that I know that you look for them, as well as independently.
The share of credit
When others have helped you achieve something, share Credit to them. Even if their contribution is not as great as Yours sincerely, yet the share of loans with them. You'll be pleasantly surprised
Do not ask others to do for you that will not bring them
If you want to get out of your way for people not expect that they go out of their way for you. Set the first For example - if you help them, they will help you.
Always show the recognition
Everyone wants approval and recognition for what they did. If someone helps you in any case, tell him how much you appreciate his actions. If you do not, he can not help you again. It you should tell people when you show your appreciation: "I really appreciate how you ..."; "Thank you very much for ..."; "You are very good ...":" I want to tell you how I rated ..."; "You were very nice ..." Do not show too much approval and recognition, or it will lose its credibility.
Do not "Show Up" Other
When you "appear" others you do so at their own expense. "Display Up "in the presence of other people are deprived of their self-esteem. If You are better than others, they will know it - you should affect them.
Treat Small Things on the importance
Some things that seem small to you mean a lot to others. Do not ignore small problems, help people to solve them. Treatment minor problem with shows the importance of other people, you care.
Human beings
All concerned about themselves and this is important for they have people to care for them. They are raised when you care of them. Helping people cope with everyday life makes people feel that you care about them.
Do not criticize a person in front of others
If you criticize someone in front of others, he will always be Resent you. This is one of the most humiliating things that you can do. If You criticize someone, criticize it constructively and private.
Give people your undivided attention
All people want to fell important. In order for a person feels is important that you have to give him her undivided attention when communicate with him. Get rid of all interruptions. Ensure you have good eye contact, and that you are not playing with objects.
Be polite, considerate, polite and Diplomatic
Everyone appreciates the people polite, tactful, polite and diplomatic. The best way to explore these qualities in others. Study someone you would like to be like and learn how it leads himself.
Be confident
If you are unsure of themselves, while others will not have trust in you, either. People admire and respect confident people. If you show others doubt, they will treat you with doubt. Be confident in yourself and diminish your risk.
Conclusion
Getting started can be very easy if you are looking for him on the right path. Knowing exactly what you want, and then going after, he will always You get what you want. Be positive, determined and persistent in this that you favor, be rewarded and prosper.
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